Borderline Personality Disorder
Written 19th May 2020 - Last Update 11th July 2026
Borderline Personality Disorder
Diagnosis (DSM-5)
A pervasive pattern of instability in relationships, self-image, and mood, plus impulsivity — starting by early adulthood and present across a variety of contexts. Five or more of:
- Frantic efforts to avoid real or imagined abandonment
- Unstable, intense interpersonal relationships, alternating between idealisation and devaluation
- Impulsivity in at least two areas (spending, sex, substance use, reckless driving, binge eating)
- Recurrent suicidal behaviour, gestures, threats, or self-harm
- Affective instability — mood is highly reactive, with episodes lasting hours and rarely more than a few days
- Chronic feelings of emptiness
- Inappropriate, intense anger, or difficulty controlling anger
- Transient, stress-related dissociation or paranoid ideation
Epidemiology: prevalence ~1–2%, roughly twice as common in women. Usually a family history in first-degree relatives of alcohol/substance use disorders and depression.
Clinical features
Patients are often in a near-constant state of crisis, with repetitive suicidal or self-harming acts that can serve to elicit help, express anger, or cope with overwhelming feelings. Frantic attempts to find companionship — however unsatisfactory or temporary — can lead to sexual promiscuity. Chronic emptiness and a poorly defined sense of self are common; patients may report feeling depressed “always,” despite mood clearly varying over time.
Two characteristic defence mechanisms:
- Splitting — viewing people as all good or all bad, with allegiances that frequently flip between the two.
- Projective identification — projecting unacceptable aspects of their own personality onto others, then unconsciously inducing the other person to act that part out.
BPD tends to be fairly stable over time, with a strong association with depressive episodes.
Management
Structured psychotherapy — particularly dialectical behaviour therapy (DBT) — is first-line. Medication is adjunctive only, targeting specific symptoms rather than the disorder itself:
- Useful for comorbid depression.
- Antipsychotics may help anger, hostility, or brief psychotic episodes.